Is blaming onself a good method of progressing?
Blaming oneself? No, not necessarily. It may be useful, it is indeed useful from time to time in order to get out of the illusion of one's own perfection. But one wastes much energy in self-criticism. It is much better to use this same energy in making progress, a concrete progress, something more useful. For example, if you have thoughts which are unpleasant, ugly, vulgar and disturbing, and you say: "Ah, ah, how intolerable I am, I still have such thoughts, what a nuisance it is!" It would be much better to use this very energy simply to do this (gesture) and drive away the thoughts…
It is of course necessary from time to time to recognise one's faults it is altogether indispensable. But to dwell too much upon them is not necessary. What is necessary is to use all one's energy in order to build up the qualities one wants to have and do what one wants to do. This is much more important.
